We live in this competitive world with a given criteria on whatever we do in our lives to survive in the pool of blatant shame & lacking common sense just to prove that we are cool like everyone else. The result is, we look & behave like everyone else. There are two type of person that inspire people, which is Prince/Princess Charming, whom we chose as our role model & to masturbate, the other is Ugly Betty/Bob whom we chose as someone to avoid & scapegoat of amusement.
Funnily enough, Ugly Betty/Bob is much more popular than Prince/Princess Charming. It wasn't because that any of us found pity in his/her poor soul for being in pathetic state. Somehow Ugly Betty/Bob is more likely to be present in the conversation. Somehow Ugly Betty/Bob is more likely to be present in the conversation more than someone whom they looked up to, for a sad comparison; someone that they hate & don't want to include in their "Circle". Like those reality television shows, almost 70 percent of the show content focused on the losers. Show how miserable they are, their screw-ups, negative social with other people & embarrassment on national television. But the fact is, we actually excited over it. We cheered for them, we mocked them, we hated them, we laugh at them, we sympathized at them & etc...they are the main source of inspiration of what to avoid. I know all of you are. I know you refused to admit but you are an ass. I'm not going to lie on my part, but I admit that we have a common ground.
I have a egocentric friend whom is easy to manipulate. I know it's a cruel thing to say but, even if you don't & found out that he thought that you're superior than him, he'll become your repetitive proxy of a broken scanner & you wouldn't know about it until you realize that you have a twin brother. Not to worry, when he grew bored, he'd just find another one to be inspired from. No he doesn't suffer from identity crisis. That IS his identity. When he does find you uninspiring, he will struggle to pretend that he is much more superior, by repeating the stuff of the other person whom he thinks that is inspiring. What is worse that not only he copy how the other person talk, he copy behaviors as well. I'm pretty sure you have a friend like that.
